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8 Ways to Personalize Your Wedding

Traditional or personalized? Should you stick with one or mix in both for your wedding? We think that it’s your day so you do whatever makes you most happy! If you do decide to head down the personalized road, whether it be fully or for just one thing, but have no idea on where to start, Lesner Inn has 8 ways to personalize your big day! We hope you can find some inspiration!

 

Write your own vows

Even though we feel this is almost a given for today’s weddings, we still want to put it out there! Words directly from the heart of your spouse are things to cherish forever.

Signature drinks

These are also very regular at weddings now but what makes them even more personalized is naming them yourselves! Creating your own names from memories with your fiancé could be a fun date night idea before the wedding!

Right: Lia Everette Photography

Guest book

There are so many ideas out there for your guest book! If you love travelling, go for a globe. If you or your fiancé are in the Navy, why not do an anchor?

Groomsmen socks

The bride has her dress and the men, they have their tuxes, but more importantly, they have their socks. It’s the one piece of the wedding day that they get to personalize! It could be a favorite sports teams, super heroes, animals, or anything that the groom wants to surprise his guys with on the wedding day!

Below: David Champagne Photography

Include your pet

Everyone loves dogs, right?! Why not include them in your ceremony? They’d make the cutest ring bearer or the perfect addition to family photos! Just be sure they don’t steal a hors d’oeuvre or two during cocktail hour!

Having a friend perform the ceremony

Have a friend who you want to include in the wedding and is a brilliant public speaker? They can get ordained instantly online and perform the ceremony for you! They might need to write a couple versions of the ceremony speech but there’s a first for everything, right?!

Exits

Who doesn’t want a grand exit that your guests will remember for years to come?! Rent a Lamborghini, ride off in a boat, or maybe even a helicopter! Of course, a helicopter may be a little harder but it’s worth a shot!

Table numbers

Switching up the regular numbers for something that speaks to you and your fiancé is such a cute idea! You could range from hobby inspired signs to places you’ve traveled together or even to pictures of you at the age of the table number!

Left: Cynthia Tenney Photography

 

Wow! We’ve seen every single one of these ideas come to life at Lesner Inn and we just loved them all! Putting a little bit of your personal love story into the wedding is never a bad idea, so if you’re stuck on what to do, just take a second look at the list and go with your favorite! If you want even more inspiration, head over to our Pinterest boards and check out “Details and Décor” and “DIY”!

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  • Mr. & Mrs. John­son

    MARCH 10, 2018
    ENTIRE VENUE

    Working with Lindsey and the Lesner Inn was great! I planned the majority of my wedding from out of town and Lindsey could not have been more patient with my constant emails. The venue looked beautiful at the reception and my guests loved the views and the food. The crab cakes were everyone’s favorite. Thank you so much to the Lesner Inn team and & Lindsey for such a beautiful wedding!

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    JUNE 22, 2018
    LESNER HALL & SUNSET DECK

    I could NOT be happier with the service from Lesner Inn. Our coordinator Liz was SO helpful each time we met with her and had questions. The ceremony and receptions spaces were absolutely beautiful. If I had to do it all over again I wouldn’t change a thing and I would recommend this venue to anyone!

  • The Bells

    SEPTEMBER 24, 2016
    LESNER HALL & SUNSET DECK

    Alexis, We just wanted to say thank you for all that you did Saturday & all the planning leading up to our wedding day. We had such an amazing day! And we really appreciated you making sure we were taken care of throughout the night. You’re amazing at what you do & helped our wedding day turn out to be perfect! Thank you again!

  • Jon & Brit­tany Wil­son

    JULY 15, 2017
    LESNER HALL & SUNSET DECK

    Girls at the Lesner Inn, Wow! I can’t believe it’s been just about a year since Jon and I came through the doors and knew that this would be the place we say “I do”. You guys are awesome and made planning a breeze even for this bride who didn’t have it all together. Thank you guys so much for everything, our day was perfect!

  • Kyle & Elise Miller

    APRIL 8, 2018
    LESNER HALL & SUNSET DECK

    Lindsey!
    I am speechless! Friday was truly amazing. You went above and beyond to make our day so special! We loved every second of the night. Thank you also for the champagne glasses and kitchen towel. You are so sweet! Everyone raved about the night. You and Lesner Inn are AMAZING!
    Love you
    Kyle & Elise Miller

  • GIVEAWAY TIME!! 💛 We have partnered with The Back Deck on a special engagement party giveaway! One lucky couple will receive a percentage off their party at @thebackdeck and an engagement basket from Lesner Inn to keep you in the wedding planning mood! You don't have to be a Lesner Inn bride to participate so be sure to tag all of your engaged friends! 🥰 To enter: 1. Like our photo 2. Follow both Lesner Inn & @thebackdeck 3. Tag 2 friends 4. Extra entry - share to your story and mention Back Deck & Lesner That's it!! The winner will be announced next Monday. 💃🏼 _ 📸: Sara Tiffany Photography
  • As always, these sunsets are complimentary with every Lesner Inn wedding 😍 • • Photo: Cortese Photography & Film
  • A big ole smooch with your best friends by your side is the perfect moment 😘 • • Photo by Cynthia Tenney Photography Gown: Ava Clara Couture Bridal Designer: Kenneth Winston Florals: Norfolk Wholesale Floral
  • Casual Sunday weddings for the win 🙌 • • Photo: Timeless Tides Photography
  • Literal tears from how cute this is 😍😭 • • Photo: Leah Ariel Photography, LLC
  • Something light, bright, and beautiful to perk up your Tuesday 😍 Photo: Skylar Wyatt Photography Flowers: Fluttering Flowers
  • Sparkler exits will never, ever get old 😍 • • Photo: David Champagne Photography Hair: The Hair Days MUA: BlushTones
  • Dad, thank you for being someone I can look up to no matter how tall I grow. Happy Father's Day! ❤️ • • Photo by Sarah Vanderford Photography
  • Can you even imagine a better view?! 😍😍 • • Photo by Luke & Ashley Photography Florals by Kelly Gish Floral Designs Dress from Ava Clara Couture Bridal Hair/MU by Haleigh’s Hair Fur from Frances Kahn
  • One of the many perks of the Sunset Deck is that it is open to the Lynnhaven River but is still covered in case of less than perfect weather! Our couples are still able to have their ceremony on the water and take pictures on the deck after with no fear of getting wet! 🤗 • • Photo: Dustin Lewis Images Bouquet: Norfolk Wholesale Floral Hair/Makeup: Makeup by Kim Porter
  • Isn't this just the sweetest sweetheart table?? 💕 • • Photo by Luke & Ashley Photography Florals by Kelly Gish Floral Designs Tableware by West Elm Bottle of Taken Wine Company Linens from Waterford Event Rentals, LLC
  • The dock outside the Waterside Deck is just the perfect spot for a waterfront kiss 😘 • • Photo: April Renee' Photography Florals: Sterling Myers Hair: Stephanie Michelle Hair MUA: Sydney Balmer Gown: Kenneth Winston
  • 🇺🇸 Happy Memorial Day 🇺🇸 • • To those who courageously gave their lives and those who bravely fight today, THANK YOU! • • We hope everyone has a great Memorial Day with their loved ones honoring our soldiers ❤️💙
  • It might have been raining before the wedding started but that didn't damper Sara and Jibri's mood ❤️ David Champagne Photography had the chance to capture a few shots after the rain stopped and look how beautifully they came out! • • Hair: The Hair Days MUA: BlushTones Bouquet: Black Iris Florist
  • Complimentary breath taking sunsets with every Lesner Inn wedding 😍 • • Photo: Who's That Girl Photos
  • "I will love you for the rest of time" ❤️ • • Photo: April Renee' Photography Florals: Sterling Myers Hair: Stephanie Michelle Hair MUA: Sydney Balmer Gown: Kenneth Winston
  • There's so many ways to decorate the Waterside Deck for cocktail hour! We love when couples change it up and allow their own vision for the room come to life 😍 • • Photo: Luke & Ashley Photography Greenery: Fluttering Flowers Lighting: Stage Right Lighting Bar from yours truly 💕
  • When the groom sees his bride walking down the isle and his instinct is to wave 😍👋 • • What would be your first instinct? Wave, cry, or smile?? • • Photo by Luke and Ashley Photography
  • Kisses are even better during your first dance 😘 • • Photo by Lia Everette Photography
  • As much as we love the water view on the Sunset Deck, we absolutely love grand staircase photos 💕 • • Photo by Luke & Ashley Photography Florals by Fluttering Flowers Bouquet by Kelly Gish Floral Designs Dress from Ava Clara Couture Bridal Hair/MU by Haleigh’s Hair
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