Tips to Keep Your Lit­tle Helpers Calm

We’ve all been to those wed­dings where the flower girl can’t stand still and just wants to be with her mommy. Or the ring bearer can’t stop fid­dling with his too trendy for a tod­dler sus­penders once reach­ing the end of the aisle. These things can be dis­tract­ing, and can take the focus off of your vows and the over­all ambiance of the cer­e­mony. Luck­ily, we’ve seen a thing or two, and have some of the best tips to keep all of your lit­tle helpers calm dur­ing your ceremony!

Start train­ing early

  • While your bridal party may just need one rehearsal to get the rou­tine down, your flower girl and ring bearer may need a lit­tle more train­ing. Show them videos of other wed­dings to give them an exam­ple of how they are expected to act, or even throw a pre­tend wed­ding where they get to act out what they should be doing!

Make sure they’re comfortable

  • If a child doesn’t like the tutu or vest you dress them up in, they won’t hide their emo­tions. So, to pre­vent a half naked or cry­ing child from walk­ing down the aisle, try mak­ing them a part of choos­ing their attire. If you give them a choice, they will be much more will­ing to cooperate.

Give them a lit­tle some­thing to keep them occupied

  • One of the best tips we’ve heard for flower girls at the Lesner Inn, is to put skit­tles or another of their favorite can­dies at the bot­tom of the bas­ket. This gives them some­thing to work for while they’re toss­ing the flow­ers, and keeps them occu­pied and will­ing to stand still dur­ing the ceremony!

Keep their par­ents close

  • For any of those shy or attached chil­dren, have their par­ents sit­ting towards the front so they don’t feel uncom­fort­able. A famil­iar face can always calm a child down!


  • After all, there will be cake at the reception :)

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  • Pre-​ceremony Cel­e­bra­tions

    We know how it is. Your wed­ding day is a cel­e­bra­tion, an all day cel­e­bra­tion, and what bet­ter way to cel­e­brate than pop­ping cham­pagne before the cer­e­mony? Well, thank­fully, we’re here to help you accom­plish all of your cel­e­bra­tion needs!

    After many long and tedious hours of test­ing out cham­pagnes from our wine dis­trib­u­tors, we have cho­sen the best cham­pagnes to get your pre-​ceremony cel­e­bra­tions going! I know, we made such a great sac­ri­fice to bring these cel­e­bra­tory drinks straight to you, but it’s the least we could do to show you all how much we love cel­e­brat­ing you and your very momen­tous occasion!

    Check out how we can help you and your bridal party cel­e­brate before the cel­e­bra­tion, by click­ing the menu below!

    Pre­cer­e­mony Celebrations

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    Thank You!

    With the year 2016 ahead of us, we would like to say a quick thank you to all of our cou­ples in 2015 who took the time to review their expe­ri­ences with us. It means the world to us that so many peo­ple felt that their expe­ri­ence was worth shar­ing with other poten­tial brides and grooms! As we reflect on 2015, we think it’s impor­tant to pat our­selves on the back for being rec­og­nized on Wed­ding Wire, The Knot, and for the first time in Vir­ginia Liv­ing Magazine!

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    The Lesner Inn has been rec­og­nized for three years in a row as one of the best venues in the Hamp­ton Roads area rated by cou­ples on Wed­ding Wire. We have also been rec­og­nized on the Knot as best of wed­dings for the past 2 years, by our past brides and grooms. Now, for the first time, we have been rec­og­nized by Vir­ginia Liv­ing Mag­a­zine as one of the top wed­ding ven­dors in Vir­ginia Beach!

    We can­not wait to see what the future holds for us, and we hope to keep these streaks going by pro­vid­ing excel­lent ser­vice to all of our couples!

    Best of 2015

    As 2015 comes to a close, we here at Lesner Inn want to take a moment to reflect on what a great year it has been with both our social and wed­ding events. We have seen some of the most spec­tac­u­lar and cre­ative uses of our spaces, most touch­ing moments, most beau­ti­ful pho­tographs, and so many other things that made 2015 at the Lesner Inn so mem­o­rable! For those of you who were mar­ried with us in 2015, we hope this first year of mar­riage has been bliss­ful and we wish you all the best in years to come, and for those of you who held a social event with us, we hope to help you host an event again in the future!

    Best Cake Display:

    • Here at the Lesner Inn we see our fair share of beau­ti­ful – and deli­cious – cakes! But, by far the most beau­ti­fully exe­cuted cake would have to be from Jacque­line and Tim­o­thy Cleary’s wed­ding! Check out this awe­some cake by Cakes by Crys­tal, and thanks to Sky­lar Watt for cap­tur­ing this gor­geous cake!
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    Best Hash Tag:

    • Com­ing up with a clever hash­tag is not an easy feat. Most cou­ples end up with a basic hash­tag like #meet­the­smiths. But Melinda Lack­ore and William Zack­owski were able to come up with the clever­est mash up of names in 2015 for the hash­tag #the­biglack­owski! If you’ve ever seen the movie, The Big Labowski then you should appre­ci­ate this hash­tag as much as we do! Great job Mr. and Mrs. Zack­owski! Thanks to Eliz­a­beth Friske for cap­tur­ing their beau­ti­ful day!
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    Best Flower Girls:

    We want to hire these two as full time flower girls! They stole the show with their dash­ing escort of a ring bearer when they entered the recep­tion hall. With some liq­uid courage from the sparkling cider, they tore up the dance floor at Ash­ley and Gary Jeager’s recep­tion and showed us that lit­tle feet sure can move! Thanks to Sky­lar Wyatt for cap­tur­ing their antics all evening — they def­i­nitely won best flower girls of 2015!

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    Best Theme:

    • Cre­ative wed­ding themes are one in a mil­lion at Lesner Inn, but Ann Marie and Brian Ambler really took their marathon theme and ran with it! Being a cou­ple who love to get their exer­cise in by the mile, Ann Marie and Brian made sure to incor­po­rate their love for run­ning into their day of love for each other. The thought and effort they put into this event makes them so deserv­ing to be rec­og­nized for the best theme of 2015! Shout out to Daisy Tor­res for cap­tur­ing these shots!

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    Best DIY:

    • Ros­alie and Troy’s Pin­ter­est per­fect wed­ding set the bar high for cou­ples who love DIY projects! From the guest book to the pho­to­booth, their cre­ativ­ity and crafti­ness amazed us all. Take a peek at some of her unique touches below. Shout out to Shan­non Mof­fit for the awe­some photographs!
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  • Best Exit:

    • Boat exits are def­i­nitely the most styl­ish way to leave the Lesner Inn, and we have to give the best exit of 2015 to Laura and War­ren Adkins for this awe­some shot of our build­ing and their guests send­ing them off! Thanks to Tara Liebeck for cap­tur­ing this image!
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    Best Toast Moment:

    • Cindy was such a joy to work with in the months pre­ced­ing her beau­ti­ful wed­ding day, and the team at the Lesner Inn has noth­ing but won­der­ful things to say about her. That being said, it comes to no sur­prise that the best toast goes to Cindy & Kyle from their wed­ding last May. Cindy fell to her knees being so over­whelmed by the love her friends and fam­ily shared for her and Kyle, and we have to thank Caitlin Ger­res for cap­tur­ing this mov­ing moment!
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    Best Guest Book:

    • Guest books are always a great oppor­tu­nity to show off your cre­ativ­ity at your wed­ding, and are much more than just remem­ber­ing who was there. That’s why we love how Autumn and Matt Har­vey took the oppor­tu­nity to get some last minute advice and well wishes from their guests with their “Wish­ing Tree” guest book! This cre­ative guest book def­i­nitely takes the title of best guest book of 2015! Thanks to Sean Holder for these great shots!
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  • Best Flo­rals:

    • Choos­ing your bou­quet and flo­ral arrange­ments for your wed­ding can be an essen­tial piece of décor not only down aisle, but dur­ing the recep­tion as well. Recently, many brides have been choos­ing suc­cu­lents as a part of their flo­ral arrange­ments! Suc­cu­lents truly stole the show this year when it comes flo­rals, and nobody pulled off this trend bet­ter than Ash­ley and Nick Bankowski! We have to admire how beau­ti­ful these nat­ural col­ors look together! Props to your florist Kelly Gish, and to Dustin Lewis for get­ting these beau­ti­ful shots!
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  • Best Some­thing Borrowed:

    • When think­ing about the age old tra­di­tion of some­thing old, some­thing new, some­thing bor­rowed, some­thing blue, what nor­mally comes to mind are sim­ple trin­kets that just barely make the cut. But, Erin Lang­lands’ some­thing bor­rowed stole our hearts with a touch­ing trib­ute to her mother. Erin, with just a bit of revamp­ing, wore her mother’s wed­ding dress and looked absolutely stun­ning, tak­ing some­thing bor­rowed to a whole new level! We wish you all the best in the years to come! Great shots by Ash­ley Lester!
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    Best Water­side Deck Décor:

    • The Water­side Deck is known for its casual charm, so trans­form­ing this space into some­thing more ele­gant can be a bit of a chal­lenge. But, we have to give credit to ODU stu­dent, Brooke Web­ster, for sin­gle hand­edly putting her sorority’s hol­i­day party together in our Water­side Deck at The Lesner Inn. With use of the amaz­ing linens from Water­ford Event Rentals, she cre­ated a win­ter won­der­land with sequins and cheer­ful hol­i­day décor! Thanks to Brooke, her fel­low soror­ity sis­ters & their dates were able to have an incred­i­ble night on the water! Great job Brooke!
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    Best Lesner Hall Décor:

    • Trans­form­ing your recep­tion hall from a uni­ver­sal space, to a space that looks like it was cre­ated just for you on your wed­ding day takes a lot of work! It takes plan­ning, trial and error, and a lot of patience! Lucky for us, we’ve worked with some of the best in the busi­ness and have seen some of the most beau­ti­ful com­bi­na­tions of color in our Lesner Hall. Our favorite for 2015, how­ever, would have to be from Kim­berly and James Speck­hart! We love the gold sequined over­lays, and soft pink flo­rals! Great job to you and your team, and thanks to Amanda Hedgepeth for these gor­geous shots!
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  • Best Day Time Wedding:

    • Jenny & Denny’s wed­ding was, for many rea­sons, one of our favorites of the year! They tied in so many of their culture’s wed­ding tra­di­tions, while incor­po­rat­ing more mod­ern tra­di­tions as well! From a car­i­ca­ture artist dur­ing cock­tail hour, to tra­di­tional Indian dances dur­ing the recep­tion Jenny and Denny pulled off the best day time wed­ding we’ve seen in 2015! Their col­or­ful décor filled the room with so much love and joy, which def­i­nitely can be one of the many sources of the smiles across Jenny and Denny’s faces through­out the day! Shout out to Jason Jarvis for these amaz­ing photos!
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  • Best First Dance:

    • If you’re won­der­ing how to pull off the most roman­tic first dance, just ask the Johnson’s how it’s done. Sharise and Richard John­son con­tracted Stage Right Light­ing to “let it snow” dur­ing their first dance at their win­ter wed­ding. The effect was breathe tak­ing and showed us all some­thing we never thought we would see in the Lesner Hall! Way to keep us on our toes Johnsons!
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    Best Bad Weather Photo:

    • When Mother Nature isn’t on your side, be lucky that your pho­tog­ra­pher always is! Rain or shine, they’re there to cap­ture those pre­cious moments that you don’t want to for­get! Even with some dreary weather, Melinda and William Zack­owski were able to score this beau­ti­ful shot by Eliz­a­beth Friske and have an all-​around beau­ti­ful cer­e­mony and recep­tion with us at the Lesner Inn! Such beau­ti­ful pic­tures are def­i­nitely deserv­ing of the best bad weather pho­tos of 2015!
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    Best Sun­set Photo:

    • The Lesner Inn has a rep­u­ta­tion for gor­geous sun­sets, which obvi­ously makes for incred­i­ble pic­tures! So when it comes to choos­ing who was able to snag the most unfor­get­table sun­set pic on their wed­ding day, we have a lot to choose from! But, by far the most mem­o­rable photo from 2015 was cap­tured by Expo­sure Pho­tog­ra­phy of Amanda and Marc Foreman!
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    Best First Look:

    • Best first look of 2015 has to go to Jes­sica & Gary Ochs! One of the very many rea­sons we love our job and work­ing in wed­dings is to see the grooms face after he sees his wife for the first time on their wed­ding day. This moment makes us all real­ize that true love does exist and we love to share these beau­ti­ful moments with you! Shout out to Amanda Hedgepeth for the awe­some capture!
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  • Best First Kiss:

    • The antic­i­pated words “you may kiss the bride” can strike both excite­ment and ter­ror in the hearts of brides every­where. The pres­sure is on to have the most per­fect kiss, and Caitlin and Brett Anti­nori sure make this moment look as if they had been prac­tic­ing all of their lives! These two were such a joy to work with, and we’re so happy to have had such an exem­plary cou­ple here with us! Best wishes to you both, and thanks to Alex Mor­ing for snap­ping this pre­cious moment!
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    Best Wed­ding Photos

    • Wed­ding pho­tos are one of the most impor­tant things a bride and groom will take away from their wed­ding day. From pic­tures with your squad to inti­mate pic­tures of the bride and groom they are pic­tures that you will look back on for years to come. Dustin Lewis is an amaz­ingly skilled pho­tog­ra­pher who we have the plea­sure of work­ing with fre­quently at the Lesner Inn, and he was able to cap­ture the most beau­ti­ful moments at Angelique and Andrew Mitchell’s cer­e­mony and recep­tion! This beau­ti­ful cou­ple made Dustin’s job easy, but nonethe­less deserve to be rec­og­nized for hav­ing the best wed­ding pho­tos of 2015!
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    Cham­pagne Cock­tails

    Cham­pagne and cel­e­bra­tions go hand in hand. Whether you’re cel­e­brat­ing a grad­u­a­tion, birth­day, engage­ment or mar­riage, or even just the hol­i­days there will likely be cham­pagne involved. How you serve your cham­pagne how­ever, doesn’t have to be the same old cookie cut­ter way every­one else does! Here are our favorite ways to serve cham­pagne for any celebration!


    • This mix­ture of vodka, cham­pagne, and cran­berry juice will spread some hol­i­day cheer! Serve in your favorite styled glass with ice and an orange twist on top!

    Man­darin Cocktail

    • This sim­ple cit­rus con­coc­tion will have you ready to cel­e­brate just about any occa­sion on a sum­mer day. Just mix man­darin liqueur and cham­pagne in a cham­pagne flute and gar­nish with a clemen­tine peel to get the party started!

    Iced Toddy

    • If you like apple cider and bour­bon then you’ll love this! A mix­ture of apple cider, bour­bon, all­spice dram, and cham­pagne com­pletes this fall favorite!


    • If you’re look­ing for a spin on a clas­sic cock­tail then the G&C is the per­fect cham­pagne cock­tail for your cel­e­bra­tion. Shake up some cran­ber­ries and a pinch of sugar with gin and lime juice and top it off with a splash of champagne!

    Sim­ply Sweet

    • If you love cham­pagne, but are look­ing for a fun and cre­ative way to dress it up, keep it sim­ple by plac­ing a stick of rock candy in a cham­pagne flute. It adds just a bit of sweet­ness to the bit­ter tang of champagne!


    • For a fun and fresh cock­tail just a bit of pear vodka, St. Ger­main, and cham­pagne will do the trick! Gar­nish with a pear slice and you have a refresh­ing bev­er­age to cel­e­brate any occasion!

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    Here at Lesner Inn, we love to hear what­ever cre­ative cock­tails you can dream up. If you want to spice up your cel­e­bra­tion, ask one of our event man­agers how we can make your dream cock­tail hap­pen at your sched­uled event!

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    Way to Incor­po­rate Loved Ones Who Can’t Attend the Big Day

    For a num­ber of rea­sons, you may have a loved one who won’t be able to attend your wed­ding. Of course we wish they could be with us to share our hap­pi­ness, but there are many ways to feel close to these loved ones on your spe­cial day. From small trin­kets to sen­ti­men­tal dresses here are some of our most cher­ished ways to remem­ber those who can­not attend.

    Remem­brance Charms

    • If you have a favorite pic­ture of some­one you deeply care about, have a small charm made and have it attached to your bou­quet, shoes, or made into jew­elry. You could even do cuff links for men!


    • Did your fam­ily have a spe­cial song that would get every­body on the dance floor? Ded­i­cate a song to those fam­ily mem­bers who can’t attend, and invite the rest of your fam­ily in to par­tic­i­pate in the fun!

    Mem­ory Table

    • Have a table ded­i­cated to remem­ber­ing those who you and your fiancé have lost. Dis­play some pic­tures of your favorite mem­o­ries with them, or even just a sim­ple por­trait of each individual.

    Some­thing Borrowed

    • Every bride needs some­thing bor­rowed before she walks down the aisle, why not make it some­thing that has great sen­ti­ment? If you remem­ber look­ing at your mother, aunt, grand­mother, or even great grandmother’s wed­ding pho­tos and think­ing how beau­ti­ful they looked in their dress, see if they still have it. Some of the most beau­ti­ful wed­ding dresses we have seen have been restored to reflect a more mod­ern time, while still being a piece to remem­ber some­one you care about. You could even do some­thing as sim­ple as choos­ing pieces of jew­elry owned by a loved one.

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    Skype Them In

    • For those friends and fam­ily mem­bers who are unable to attend your wed­ding due to sick­ness, dis­tance or deploy­ments, have some­one Skype them in for the cer­e­mony or recep­tion using a phone or tablet. There is a time and place for tech­nol­ogy at a wed­ding but we def­i­nitely give this one the seal of approval.

    We hope that all of your loved ones are able to attend your spe­cial day, but if not, smile and reflect on all of the won­der­ful mem­o­ries you’ve shared!

    Most Impor­tant Things to Splurge on For Your Wed­ding

    When plan­ning your wed­ding, you will likely have a set bud­get for the event. But, as many brides will tell you, there are some things worth spend­ing some extra change on.


    • Like all things related to your wed­ding, you should do your research on this. Check reviews, pic­tures, blog posts from pho­tog­ra­phers, etc. to get a feel for what the venue is all about, and how it can make your wed­ding day the most spe­cial day of your life. It’s best to rely on sites like The Knot and Wed­ding Wire when look­ing for the expe­ri­ences of other brides. Keep in mind that your venue will be your most val­ued expense, espe­cially if you’re look­ing for perks like a water­front view and excel­lent food and bev­er­age options.


    • While some of you may be think­ing that your dress should have prece­dence over your pho­tog­ra­pher, you’ve prob­a­bly never seen bad wed­ding pho­tos. A great pho­tog­ra­pher can make a $100 dress look like a $1,000 dress, and can make a rainy day look like a mys­tic scene from a Nicholas Sparks movie. Keep this in mind before you decide that a few mediocre shots of you and your new hubby will sat­isfy you on the hap­pi­est day of your life!
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    • Whether you hire a DJ or band for your recep­tion enter­tain­ment, make sure you do your home­work on the best enter­tain­ment for your style of event. Ask other brides in the area who they booked, look up local reviews, or even search on YouTube to see them in action. Get­ting the best enter­tain­ment you can afford could even get grandma out on the dance floor!


    • Yes of course the dress made the list, but trust us when we say that the expenses listed above are 100x more impor­tant than hav­ing a designer dress. We can guar­an­tee that you will remem­ber hav­ing a great time because of the venue, enter­tain­ment, and amaz­ing pic­tures to show from it, but when you look back ten years at your dress you’ll likely ask your­self what you were thinking!


    • Your décor should not be what’s break­ing the bank for your event. Here at the Lesner Inn we offer an assort­ment of com­pli­men­tary linens for your tables, and after that it’s all about the cen­ter­pieces and place set­tings. Your over­all cost for mak­ing the space look recep­tion ready should be min­i­mal, espe­cially if the space is beau­ti­ful with­out all of the addi­tional glitz and glamour.

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    If you don’t know what to tackle first in your quest for the per­fect day, we highly sug­gest hir­ing a wed­ding plan­ner. Check out our blog Do You Need a Wed­ding Plan­ner? to find out if you should add this expense to the list!

    Next-​Day Brunch

    Won­der­ing what to do the day after your wed­ding recep­tion? Here at the Lesner Inn, we love brunch and have a great assort­ment of brunch items to kill that wed­ding party hang­over. Plan a next-​day brunch for your close fam­ily and friends to attend. This will also give all of your fam­ily and friends a chance to say their good­byes and well wishes before trav­el­ing back home, or before you make your way to your hon­ey­moon haven for the fol­low­ing weeks. Here are some of the neces­si­ties to have the per­fect brunch after your wed­ding reception:

    Mimosas & Bloody Marys

    Every­one knows that no brunch is com­plete with­out these crowd favorites! Not only are they the trick to killing any hang­over, but they’re just plain deli­cious! Have these stocked at your bar to get your brunch started off right!

    Steak and Eggsbrunch

    Have you ever won­dered why steak and eggs is such a pop­u­lar brunch com­bi­na­tion? Well aside from being the best pair­ing of foods since peanut but­ter and jelly, steak and eggs con­tain large amounts of B12 vit­a­mins which is an essen­tial vit­a­min that alco­hol exhausts from your body. This is why no brunch is com­plete with­out this mag­nif­i­cent pair­ing of break­fast and din­ner items.


    After a night of drink­ing, fruit is the per­fect way to bring some of the other essen­tial vit­a­mins that crept out of your sys­tem, back in. Have lots of fruits with vit­a­min C avail­able for your guests to liven up their day!


    There’s noth­ing bet­ter than a piece of toasted, but­tered bread or a heap­ing plate of crispy, salted home fries to top off your brunch expe­ri­ence. Every­one needs carbs the day after drink­ing and there’s noth­ing to be ashamed of!

    When plan­ning your next-​day brunch, don’t for­get this key piece of advice. Noth­ing you eat counts the day after a night of partying!

    If you’re inter­ested in host­ing a brunch the day after your wed­ding recep­tion, birth­day, or any other excuse to get your friends and fam­ily together, con­tact one of our sales man­agers to get more information!

    Favorite Favors

    While you’re not exactly expected to present favors at your wed­ding, doing so can be a nice way to say thank you to all of your guests for attend­ing. Here at the Lesner Inn we’ve seen all types of favors rang­ing from sweet treats to kind memen­tos. What you choose to do is entirely up to you, but here are some of our favorite favors from 2015!


    • If you’re famil­iar with Duck Donuts, then you under­stand why donuts are at the top of our list. Cre­ate a crafty dis­play of all sorts of donuts for your guests to take home and enjoy after the fes­tiv­i­ties are over. Check out this dis­play from a wed­ding we hosted last weekend!

    Candy Bar

    • Who doesn’t love candy? Whether it’s choco­late, sour gum­mies, lol­lipops, or any­thing else you can think of your guests will love a bag of sweet treats to go! Check out this awe­some candy bar from ear­lier this year!


    • Okay we get it, we LOVE sweets! But how cute is this s’mores display?

    Inscribed Cups

    • You can never really have too many cups! Why not give your guests a gift that will remind them of your big night every time they’re sip­pin on the drink of their choice!


    • I know suc­cu­lents sound like an odd thing to be trend­ing, but check out Pin­ter­est and see just how many wed­dings fea­ture suc­cu­lents in their bou­quets, cen­ter pieces, and even as favors. Check out this adorable lit­tle favor from the other weekend!

    When choos­ing your wed­ding favors, just remem­ber they don’t have to be some extrav­a­gant gift that your guests will keep for­ever. Keep it sim­ple and just show them how much their pres­ence meant to you!

    Do You Need a Wed­ding Plan­ner?

    One of the inevitable ques­tions we hear at the Lesner Inn while talk­ing to clients is, do we need a wed­ding coor­di­na­tor? And while we could go on for hours about why a wed­ding coor­di­na­tor can save your life, we sim­ply say that while you are not required to have one, we highly rec­om­mend it. A wed­ding coor­di­na­tor han­dles all of the poten­tial dis­as­ters that would leave you par­a­lyzed, and all of the minor details that you would never even think to con­front. They tell you all of the do’s and don’ts, and help to ensure that every­thing looks just as you had hoped it would on your big day. They know what works, and what doesn’t, and they are able to pre­vent dis­as­ters before they even hap­pen. I know I’m basi­cally describ­ing a super hero, but that’s basi­cally what they are when it comes to your wed­ding day.

    Some of you may be hav­ing a small, low-​key cer­e­mony and recep­tion, in which case you may feel that you don’t need any­one to help you direct or set up for the occa­sion. In this case, if you’re extremely orga­nized and have a great group of brides­maids to help you plan and cre­ate the per­fect feel for your event, you may not need a wed­ding coor­di­na­tor. But what many don’t con­sider is the seem­ingly sim­ple act of walk­ing down the aisle. You need some­one to be avail­able to tell you when it’s go time, which is where a coor­di­na­tor would come in extremely handy.

    For any­one hav­ing a large-​scale event, we HIGHLY rec­om­mend that you have add the expense of a wed­ding coor­di­na­tor to avoid the poten­tial con­se­quences of tak­ing mat­ters into your own hands. With hav­ing so much going on, you will need some­one to han­dle the extra stresses and details.

    While the staff at Lesner Inn is more than happy to help you with any­thing you may need, our main objec­tive is to ensure your food is com­ing out on time, drinks are flow­ing, and that every­thing is set to make your taste buds explode! With all of this on our plate, it’s impos­si­ble to fill the role of a wed­ding coor­di­na­tor as well.

    If your bud­get doesn’t have room to squeeze a wed­ding coor­di­na­tor in, ask a friend or fam­ily mem­ber to fill their place. Before ask­ing this of some­one though, make sure they have some sort of back­ground han­dling a major event, or have at least attended a wed­ding or two. We work with fam­ily mem­bers fre­quently, and while they may not be Bat­man, Robin always ends up com­ing through.

    Hur­ri­cane Wed­ding

    With hur­ri­cane Joaquin mak­ing his dra­matic exit from the east coast, we reflect on the prob­lems that occurred, and the solu­tions to those prob­lems. If you’re plan­ning a wed­ding close to hur­ri­cane sea­son, there are some things to con­sider and be pre­pared to deal with if a hur­ri­cane (or other poorly timed weather dis­as­ters) muck up your wed­ding plans.


    Here’s a shot of our last minute “barn­yard” wedding!

  • Venue
  • If you plan to have your wed­ding out­doors, keep a close eye on the weather. Heavy wind and rain can eas­ily knock out the barn­yard wed­ding that you had hoped for. If the weather doesn’t look favor­able, call around to other venues in the area and find out their avail­abil­ity, it’s always good to have a backup. We were able to help a bride in need this past week­end when Joaquin flooded her barn­yard wedding!


    Keep­ing from the wind and rain with this indoor ceremony!

    Also, if your venue has an out­door deck for the cer­e­mony and an indoor space for the recep­tion, make sure your venue coor­di­na­tors have a plan of action if the wind and rain get too bad to con­tinue with an out­door cer­e­mony. Luck­ily, our Lesner Hall is large enough to set up a cer­e­mony as well!

  • Grand exit
  • Strong winds can eas­ily mess up the sparkler exit you had planned, so be pre­pared to have an alter­na­tive that won’t be smoth­ered by the wind. Glow sticks have a sim­i­lar affect that sparklers would in an image. In any event, you should always be pre­pared to han­dle any­thing life throws at you. Here at the Lesner Inn, we’ve seen it all, and luck­ily we have a great staff who is always on their toes!

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